Bagaimana jika mahar nya itu berupa mata uang…andaikata dengan nominal 1jt rupiah, apakah wajib bagi seorang suami setiap bulan untuk menafkahi sesuai jumlah nominal tersebut ustad
Dan bagaimana jika berada di dalam kondisi pasang surutnya ekonomi, dan suami pun belum mampu untuk menafkahi sesuai nominal mahar yg di berikan di dalam akad trsebut…bagaimana hukumnya ustad
Jawaban:
Mahar dan Nafaqoh itu adalah dua hal yg berbeda, kewajiban nominal Nafakah tidak tergantung pada nominalnya mahar, kewajiban nafaqah suami pada istri tergantung kondisi kemampuan suami itu sendiri. Masalah soal mahar memakai uang dengan nominal 1 juta sah2 saja, karena mimang masalah mahar itu tidak ada ketentuan syara’ dalam ukuran maksimal atau minimal jumlah mahar, yang menjadi pertimbangan dalam kadarnya adalah kerelaan dan kesepakatan sepasang calon suami istri meski kadarnya kemudian dianggap lebih rendah atau lebih tinggi dari kadar mahar mitsil namun yang paling baik ukurannya adalah yang sewajarnya.
فَصْلٌ : فَإِذَا ثَبَتَ أَنَّ أَقَلَّ الْمَهْرِ وَأَكْثَرَهُ غَيْرُ مُقَدَّرٍ ، فَهُوَ مُعْتَبَرٌ بِمَا تَرَاضَى عَلَيْهِ الزَّوْجَانِ مِنْ قَلِيلٍ وَكَثِيرٍ ،
المعتمد ج ٤ ص ٢٨٠.
إن نفقة الزوجة مقدرة بحسب حال الزوج في اليسار و الإعسار دون الإعتبار لحال الزوجة لأن النفقة تتبع الإستطاعة و هي عائدة إلى حال المنفق لا إلى حال المنفق عليه لقوله تعالى : لِيُنْفِقْ ذُو سَعَةٍ مِنْ سَعَتِهِ ۖ وَمَنْ قُدِرَ عَلَيْهِ رِزْقُهُ فَلْيُنْفِقْ مِمَّا آتَاهُ اللَّهُ ۚ لَا يُكَلِّفُ اللَّهُ نَفْسًا إِلَّا مَا آتَاهَا ۚ سَيَجْعَلُ اللَّهُ بَعْدَ عُسْرٍ يُسْرًا و الله أعلم.
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